Training and Resources for Parents and Guardians
Being a parent or a caregiver of a child or teen experiencing intense stress or mental health challenges can be overwhelming. Between the nature of adolescence and the everyday needs of running a household, it can be hard to know where to turn when you encounter an unfamiliar health situation and need some help.
The most important thing to remember is that you can play a key role in being there for your child or teen, and that your presence is so often critical in any healing process. You caring and listening is key.
With so much information available online, it is sometimes difficult to know where to start when trying to find help for a child or loved one. This page highlights some useful, practical tools when it comes to understanding what's happening with the mental health of your loved one, providing support and having effective conversations, learning how to identify services, and even options for further training or caregiver support.
IMPORTANT: If you or someone else you know is in immediate danger or crisis, please call 988 or 911.988 is the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.
Understanding Challenges
Supporting Your Loved One & Having Effective Conversations
Talking to Kids When They Need Help
Article from American Psychological Assocation
How to Help Children and Teens Manage Their Stress
Article from American Psychological Assocation
Validate, Appreciate, Refer (V-A-R)
5-minute video from Active Minds on how to have a conversation with someone who is struggling
Spanish-Language Materials on V-A-R
Spanish-language materials from Active Minds on V-A-R
What to Expect When Offering Help as a Family Member
Written information from Active Minds
How to Support Someone During Treatment
How to support someone during different types of treatment (during counseling, during outpatient, during recovery, in the hospital).
Training
Some people who have friends or loved ones with mental health challenges may become interested in more training. Youth Mental Health First Aid may be of interest, which introduces common mental health challenges for youth, reviews typical adolescent development, and teaches a 5-step action plan for how to help young people in both crisis and non-crisis situations. Topics covered include anxiety, depression, substance use, disorders in which psychosis may occur, disruptive behavior disorders (including AD/HD), and eating disorders. You can learn more here.
Additional Information
The American Psychological Association has a YouTube playlist on Psychology for Parents and Caregivers. It includes topics like Managing Pandemic Parenting Stress, ADHD among children and adults, How social media affects teens' mental health and well-being, and Parenting through the Pandemic.